BDSM and Kink

What is BDSM?

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BDSM is a variety of erotic practices or role play. BDSM stands for Bondage/Discipline, Domination/Submission and Sadism/Masochism.

Bondage is the act of tying each other up. In most cases the dominant partner is restricting the submissive. A masochist is someone who gets off on receiving sexual pain, sadism are those giving the act of sexual pain.

What are dominance and submission?

In a sense dominance and submission is an act of role play. The dominant can be male, female or any other sexual or gender orientation. The dominant or “Dom” is the person that gives the pain or discipline. They take pleasure in giving the pain, this could be by whipping or beatings or by tying the “Sub” by their hands, feet, breasts or genitals. The submissive can also be of any sexual or gender orientation. The submissive is the person who receives the pain or discipline. They take sexual pleasure in receiving pain, whipping or being tired or gagged. A submissive will know their limits and will communicate with their ” Dom ” all the way through the “play session,” safe words and signals will be used by the Sub to let the Dom know when to slow down or when to stop.

What is Kink?

Kink or Kinkiness is the use of non-conventional sexual practices, concepts or fantasies. Kink can be considered as any sexual practice that falls out of convention or is an unusual taste in sexual behaviour such as a foot fetish or impact play.

How to get involved in the world of Kink and BDSM?

Go to a Munch! A munch is a gathering of kinky people in a vanilla or normal everyday setting such as a bar or cafe where you meet other kinky people. If you want to go to a private party you will need to start here where you can get to know others and they can get to know you. This is also known as “vetting.” Munches can be found or advertised on the internet for you local area. Online communities are a great place to get started in the world of BDSM. These sites will feature blogs and forums that will allow you to interact with other members with complete anonymity with use of a username, these can be found with a simple search for ” BDSM Events” or “BDSM Forum.” Here you will be able to safely ask questions you may have and find the answers safely.

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