Butt plugs can be just as polarising as anal sex itself. Some anal enthusiasts swear by butt plugs; others prefer to go au natural.
What are butt plugs?
Buttplugs are designed to relax the anus and prepare it for anal sex. As you can imagine, butt plugs come in various sizes, so if you’re a beginner, it’s recommended you go for a more modestly sized one to avoid any injuries.
How do I use a butt plug?
Once you’ve got a buttplug you feel comfortable with, you want to start thinking about lube. Unlike the vagina, the anus doesn’t lubricate itself, so it’s highly recommended that you purchase some lube before using your plug.
make sure you’re “in the mood”; otherwise, your anus will be tense, making it harder to insert the plug. Try playing with the anus in accompaniment with the vagina/penis to get things moving.
When you’re comfortable and feel you’re ready to take out the plug, do so slowly! Don’t yank it out like you starting a chainsaw; otherwise, you’re probably going to have a messy situation on your hands!
Once you’ve finished with your butt plug, make sure you clean it! Remember where it’s just been!
To butt plug or not to butt plug?
As you can see, butt plugs require a little bit more patience and hard work than regular sex toys. However, if used correctly, butt plugs can be a lot of fun, and they can also really help prepare you for anal sex.
Some people aren’t keen on them, and each to their own. But, don’t discount them if you’re wanting to explore the many joys of anal sex!